tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post3107463497726973514..comments2024-03-01T07:33:26.975-05:00Comments on Diary of a Disillusioned Dater: Beating a dead and lonely horseMarchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00529663992761318061noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-28686250505983890532007-08-08T22:32:00.000-04:002007-08-08T22:32:00.000-04:00It's a volume business, man. Are they WORTH sendin...It's a volume business, man. Are they WORTH sending IMs/emails to? Probably not, but you just can't sit around and wait for them to email you because they rarely do. But thanks for the support.Marchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00529663992761318061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-13758952457647278772007-08-08T21:56:00.000-04:002007-08-08T21:56:00.000-04:0035 emails? Umm...That is ALOT!!! Are that many wom...35 emails? Umm...That is ALOT!!! Are that many women worth sending IMs too? Well good luck on the 12 Step Program. Love the blog. Got all my friends that are on Jdate reading it.Matthewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10125743055373779697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-64100622464749879042007-08-08T00:22:00.000-04:002007-08-08T00:22:00.000-04:00There's no limit on IMs, but if a woman doesn't re...There's no limit on IMs, but if a woman doesn't respond to you and you close the dialogue box, the IM gets sent to her as an email. There's something like a 35 email a day limit to prevent spam....or in my case, excessive humiliation.Marchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00529663992761318061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-67696965227159320962007-08-07T19:52:00.000-04:002007-08-07T19:52:00.000-04:00How many ims do have to send to reach the limit?How many ims do have to send to reach the limit?Matthewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10125743055373779697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-17280744515460657562007-08-07T18:25:00.000-04:002007-08-07T18:25:00.000-04:00Oh, Marc, I used to feel your pain; remember, it t...Oh, Marc, I used to feel your pain; remember, it took me 10 YEARS on JDate and other various dating websites to finally find Mr. Right! Had to suffer through many countless lame first-dates and three failed relationships (one was 13 months, the next 4 months, the third 3 1/2 years!) before I met the best boyfriend I've ever had (seriously!). We've been together 10 months, moving in together at the end of September. Please be patient with yourself, she's out there somewhere, but it will take time to find her (hopefully not 10 years)!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-91328448755511354132007-08-07T15:25:00.000-04:002007-08-07T15:25:00.000-04:00Eat the $39 and just stop going on at all. You'll ...Eat the $39 and just stop going on at all. You'll save thousands in therapy for less then 40 bucks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-20640865424117759132007-08-07T11:49:00.000-04:002007-08-07T11:49:00.000-04:00Why dont you start a virtual meetingJdaters anon o...Why dont you start a virtual meeting<BR/>Jdaters anon online!<BR/>(and charge 39.99 per month to join)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-37317808818385332382007-08-07T11:25:00.000-04:002007-08-07T11:25:00.000-04:00Welcome back...everyone always makes a return visi...Welcome back...everyone always makes a return visit.Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10113302166083498495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-42316291174896646722007-08-07T10:55:00.000-04:002007-08-07T10:55:00.000-04:00Hmm, I'm currently unaware of such meetings, but t...Hmm, I'm currently unaware of such meetings, but there definitely should be. It would probably be a great place for you to meet women ;)Shoshanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07365142117481675663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-81046923544016131432007-08-07T10:03:00.000-04:002007-08-07T10:03:00.000-04:00Dori, my profile is as witty as they come. I assur...Dori, my profile is as witty as they come. I assure you. I have male friends who have the most generic and lame profiles, and whose pics are nothing special, who do amazingly well on that site. So it's a mystery to me. <BR/><BR/>Shoshana, I admit I have a problem. Is there a Jdaters anonymous meeting you can direct me to? I'm familiar with the blog by that name, but there are no actual meetings where I can get up and say, "Hi, I'm Marc and I'm addicted to Jdate."Marchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00529663992761318061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-47799844954970569792007-08-07T09:20:00.000-04:002007-08-07T09:20:00.000-04:00I think you might be dealing with an addiction her...I think you might be dealing with an addiction here. The first step is admitting that you have a problem.Shoshanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07365142117481675663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-36474221547953630352007-08-07T09:11:00.000-04:002007-08-07T09:11:00.000-04:00Could there be something unintentionally off-putti...Could there be something unintentionally off-putting about your profile? Maybe it doesn't convey your wit and intellect? It seems odd that you'd be declined so often given how well you come across on your blog. Have you asked a female friend for feedback?Dorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06915001710266127510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001907574085269502.post-12415205392452569862007-08-07T00:21:00.000-04:002007-08-07T00:21:00.000-04:00they told you to walk away, but you couldn't liste...they told you to walk away, but you couldn't listen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com